Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Conflict

What do you do when you know something is awry and inconsistent with what you believe?

You confront it. But this is much easier said than done...

This past Monday, I turned in a letter of resignation at work. It was not, however, just putting in my two weeks. This letter also housed some observations of things I did not agree with.

I know my decision to confront the things I saw was the right thing to do but I honestly think I did not handle it in the most tactful way. In fact, in the past week, I have not handled some other conflicts with family members in the best was possible.

Thank you Martha and Mother for directing me to recognize that this overall situation is probably designed to prepare for me for next year. Conflict resolution is a big deal, and knowing how to do it tactfully and godly is essential to healthy relationships.

Though this has been a very painful week, I am thankful for the opportunity to grow. I don't know if I passed this test but I know I certainly learned from it. I look forward to the next time I am able to confront untruth and sin with the Lord by my side, leading me every step of the way. Oh Lord, lead me!

1 comment:

  1. Your honesty is beautiful and will surely be used by God to grow you and use you for His purposes! SO sorry to hear your week was rough, but its a new week and I am praying God will redeem it and make good come from that which was painful, difficult and hard. Sometimes hard is good....when things are hard I grow the most! Love to you as you seek the Lord and follow Him in all things. Christine

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